Books on dating tips for women
Hatred of women is a complex psychological condition that can originate from a variety of psychological causes but can often be treated by a trained therapist. Stephen Diamond, clinical and forensic psychologist and the author of “Anger, Madness, and the Daimonic: The Psychological Genesis of Violence, Evil, and Creativity,” frustration and loneliness can beget rage and violence.Because a man is born alone, walks through life as an individual and dies alone, he often endeavors to relieve his sense of loneliness by reaching out to others., says Diamond.Hatred can range from a general attitude to actual violence.Men who hate women are usually conditioned by their culture, family or actions perpetrated against them by a woman specifically or women in general.According to Slater, it's one of the few business models in which clients' failures are the company's win—the longer we seek, the more money they make.Aiming to short-circuit this cycle, "e-flirt expert" Laurie Davis' hyperprescriptive (Atria) instructs us in a level of detail that is by turns grating and illuminating on how we should be "marketing our singledom." Here, the authors' best advice on joining—and enjoying—the mixer: 1.One night, after another bad match and a solo bottle of wine, Webb rejoined JDate—this time posing as a man, to check out her competition. Webb crafted 10 male profiles so perfect they had to be fake (sample code name: Jewish Doc1000) to gather data: what the site's most popular women looked like, which keywords they used, how they timed their messages."It seemed strange now, that I'd just slap together my online dating profile, when I'd spent days agonizing over my résumé, tweaking and massaging it to land the perfect job," Webb writes in (Duffon), one of three new books about online dating out this month, in which she recounts how she cracked the online dating code to meet her now husband.
Diamond also posits that when a man's attempts are met with rejection or abandonment, whether intentional or not, he may end up feeling powerless and projecting his anger at women in general.
At 30, after a breakup that involved spotting her boyfriend draped around another woman, digital strategist Amy Webb decided to try meeting men online.
And she did: On JDate, Match.com, and e Harmony, she met guys who were six inches shorter or 30 pounds heavier than advertised; who picked expensive restaurants and passed the check to her; and who told her, mid drink, that they were married.
At first, Webb thought that women who used opening lines such as "I'm a fun-loving girl that enjoys…" and "I'm a laid-back girl who wants…" were dumbing down.
But such lightweight openers are disarming, approachable.