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They come in looking at each person, sitting and waiting, looking at their phone and at the door. Then he goes behind this one wall to sit in a partitioned off spot, even if the bar is empty.
I try to spot awkward pauses, and a trick for that is to put a menu in their hand right when you see it get weird. Whenever people are making out, it’s always a Tinder date. He’ll sip this one beer the whole night, even if the girl wants another. Sometimes, he’ll come in on a Friday with one girl, and Saturday with another. He will walk up with them when they want a drink, and then he’ll say, “Oh, I forgot my wallet.” Or “Oh it’s all the way over there behind that wall.” He never buys anyone a drink, and he never drinks anything interesting.
Sometimes, I wonder how these people have time for their friends.— that guy always comes back. I’ve seen a woman on a date with a man who starts chatting with another guy at the bar and ditches the date.I’ve seen him on probably 30 dates over the year, and he doesn’t want to know us. The worst I ever saw was this dude who came in and ordered an Old Fashioned and waited. They started talking, and when I came back to them a while later, they were arguing. She gets up, intentionally knocks over her water, and walks out. He halfway pursues her, but then stops and puts his hands on his hips and turned to us, “Can I get another shot? I see a lot of people in their 30s using apps, but I see a lot of people in their early 20s actually engaging with each other. I won’t tell you which one it is, but all the bad dates happen there.There’s this one regular here who makes maps of the bar with his Tinder dates, like a little bonding exercise.A coworker joked to me that the Post article suggests other cities are full of ugly people, but there are plenty of attractive people all over the world (except in Florida where everything is terrible and I will not back down on this).New York does have a thriving fashion industry, and a lot of models live here. If you frequently happen to date finance bros who dig models and you are not a model, things might not work out in your favor.